I've Got Your Back
- Kari Harburn, MA, LPC, CAADC, CCS
- Nov 11
- 2 min read
Mental health often feels like a private battle. Many people struggle silently, unsure where to turn or how to ask for help. On November 4, 2025, Seth Godin shared a powerful message titled "I've got your back," reminding us that support is not just a nice idea but a powerful promise and a vital part of well-being. This post explores how the therapeutic relationship in mental health counseling embodies that promise of support and why it plays a crucial role in health and wellness.
Mental health counseling is more than just talking. It is a partnership built on trust, understanding, and commitment. When someone says, "I've got your back," it means they are there through challenges, setbacks, and growth. This kind of support can transform lives.
The Power of Being Supported
Feeling supported reduces stress and anxiety. Research shows that people who have strong emotional support experience fewer symptoms of depression and recover faster from mental health crises. A therapist offers a safe space where clients can express fears and frustrations without judgment.
This relationship is unique because it is consistent and focused entirely on the individual's needs. Unlike casual conversations with friends or family, therapy provides professional guidance tailored to personal struggles.
What Makes a Therapeutic Relationship Different
Therapists are trained to listen deeply and respond thoughtfully. They help clients explore thoughts and feelings that might be difficult to face alone. This process builds self-awareness and resilience.
Key elements of a strong therapeutic relationship include:
Trust: Clients feel safe sharing their true selves.
Empathy: Therapists understand and validate emotions.
Collaboration: Both work together toward goals.
Confidentiality: Privacy encourages openness.
These factors create a foundation where healing and growth can happen.

How Therapy Supports Health and Wellness
Mental health counseling supports wellness in many ways:
Improving emotional regulation
Clients learn skills to manage stress, anger, and sadness more effectively.
Building coping strategies
Therapy offers tools to handle life's challenges without feeling overwhelmed.
Enhancing relationships
Understanding oneself better often leads to healthier connections with others.
Encouraging self-care
Counselors promote habits that support physical and mental health.
For example, someone dealing with anxiety might learn breathing techniques and cognitive strategies to reduce panic attacks. Another person facing grief could find ways to process loss and rebuild hope.
Encouraging More People to Seek Help
Despite the benefits, many hesitate to seek counseling due to stigma or uncertainty. Seth Godin’s message encourages us to change that mindset. Saying "I've got your back" means normalizing support and making it easier for people to ask for and get help.
If you or someone you know is struggling, remember that mental health counseling offers a reliable source of support. If you're looking for support near the Grand Rapids area, call us - we have openings and can usually get you a same week appointment. Cascade Counseling and Recovery is a place where you can gain support and are not alone in the issues you face.
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